a friend of mine talk me about feelings today.
he said, there is some part of brain created feeling and this area called neuroscience.
dictionary.com defines it as some sort of sensibilities and emotions. its close relative would be perception. Every person would have different feelings towards the same thing.
it is a stereotype that when come to a relationship, everyone would talk about feelings. "If this guy makes me feel right, then he would be my mr right" or "i feel so right in the first time i met her".. hence, we can know feelings act like a guidance in expanding your social circle. even purely for friendship, we tend to be closer with those make us feel good. feelings again.
surprising to know how significance is it to stand in our life. without feelings, what kind of human would us become? a study machine? or a money earner? without joy or sadness, we are insensitive towards what happen around us.
not gonna write a theoretical essay on feelings, let alone the fact that im not even a researcher on this area. just this friend of mine sort of stimulate my thoughts about feelings, especially its role in a relationship. i used to say this guy treat me well but the feelings just not right, and rejected him. but now, i think i would change my preposition and say it differently. feelings are unreliable. no doubt it is very important, but it doesnt mean we need to rely on it heavily. people tend to misunderstood that no feelings, no relationship. but a clever guy would know how to create those feelings that controlled by the brain and get the girl's heart. LOL. sound tricky yea. but i guess this is what happen and there are guys out there who is doing this. Of cos, this applies to girl as well. =D
Dont ask me how, because i dont know. in a process that figuring it out. lol.
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